00:02:09.480 –> 00:02:17.947 What people often overlook in a reconciliation process is, forgiving doesn’t mean forgetting.
00:02:18.201 –> 00:02:19.201 And …
00:02:19.300 –> 00:02:22.093 If I forgive, it doesn’t mean I agree.
00:03:02.667 –> 00:03:09.413 So what we need to do is we need to give it back where it belongs, with love and with respect
00:03:09.413 –> 00:03:19.620 and not allow that to disturb the biological and the human love which is beyond any of that.
00:03:20.713 –> 00:03:24.150 This is the thing and this is again reconciliation.
00:03:24.150 –> 00:03:30.920 So when you said, when Phyllis comes in or anybody else whom I have or had a conflict with,
00:03:31.000 –> 00:03:38.167 so you’re ready to leave that all behind and just meet as two human beings.
00:05:03.908 –> 00:05:15.367 So, people like us who work together in this very specific field, we all have stuff together that we need to work out maybe from the past.
00:05:16.700 –> 00:05:23.433 The best thing is to work it out. Otherwise, you have to do it next time.
00:05:24.717 –> 00:05:27.275 There’s no escape.
00:05:30.075 –> 00:05:32.433 So better to do it now.
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Sabine: «This video means a lot to me, because, as you know, I also never knew my biological father, and of course, not knowing him, I sometimes wondered if he could have done terrible things in his life.»
Sabine: «This video means a lot to me, because, as you know, I also never knew my biological father, and of course, not knowing him, I sometimes wondered if he could have done terrible things in his life.»